Plane Travel with Toddlers

I wrote this post two years ago, but never hit publish. Because, honestly, I asked myself if the world really does need more tips for plane travel with kids. But since we’re about to hop on our first 10 hour flight today (holy moly!), I figured that today was the day to share my bits of plane wisdom. Note that the kids are now 5.5 and 3.5, and they are so tickled to get their own apple juice and plane snacks that flying has become relatively easy. Here’s the original post:

Does the world need more tips for traveling on a plane with kids?

Maybe not, but considering that every parent stresses over this portion of their vacation, I think it’s always worth it to have a few more tricks up your sleeve.

Here’s our situation : we have two kiddos, a 3.5 yo and a 1.5 yo. We go on at least two big flights a year, sometimes more. This summer, between June and September, the boys took 4 round-trip flights. That’s 8 times that we had to prepare these kiddos to take it easy and enjoy the ride.

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  • screens – I think this one depends upon your stance on screens. We are minimal screen people, we use them, but don’t rely on them. We don’t own an ipad, but I know that some parents swear by them, and I’ve seen the wonders that they can do when a kid is old enough to sit still and watch/play with it. When I’m traveling solo with the kids, I’m also often traveling without a computer too (insane!), but I do have my phone, and if they start to get anxious, I’ll whip it out and show them old photos and videos of themselves – they love it! When we do have a computer, we’ll sometimes hook Alex up with a movie. When he has a personal screen on the seat in front of him, I let him watch a movie if requested.
  • new toys – everyone knows this trick. Buy them a few new toys that they get to open on the plane or in the airport if you have a long layover. When buying new toys for travel, pay attention to size and the number of pieces. The fewer pieces to lose the better, and the easier it is to fit in your carryon, the better. One of the biggest hits for my boys was when I bought them both new airplanes that make noise and have flashing lights. I planned ahead and knew that I was going to pick them up in the airport bookstore. They boys played with those planes for hours.
  • craft supplies – you aren’t going to whip out a hot glue gun on the plane, but some supplies can keep them busy for a long time. We’ve had a lot of luck with colorful pipe cleaners, puffy stickers, and those preschool sewing cards. The pipe cleaners can be bent and twisted to make different shapes, you can weave them through straws, button holes, etc. Our boys love stickers, and I’ve found that if you take the puffy ones on planes, then you can let the kids put them on anything in your row (window, tray, seat, etc), and they are really easy to peel off when cleaning up.
  • wiggle time! – Unless you’re traveling during nap or bed time, it can be really hard to expect kids to sit still for hours on end. When the boys are getting antsy, I try to find something for them to do that will keep them in our row, but let them move a little bit while still not bumping the seats in front of us. My favorite move is to give them both diaper wipes and asked them to clean the plane – they love it! Do you ever give your kid a wipe and let them just play with it? I think there’s something about touching and play with the cool, wet wipe that’s really exciting for them.

10 Tips for Learning to Ride a Motorbike

liveseasoned motorbike thailand-3Learning to ride a motorbike abroad will open up a world of possibilities. You are able to travel at any time of day or night, explore secret corners of each city as well as deep interiors of islands without much planning. Once you’re confident on a motorbike, a newfound freedom will have you scooting the days away in search of adventure that is available to only those with the skills to get them there.

Personally, I had a horrible first day. I was confused, anxious, scared, and feeling quite incapable. I ended up letting my best friend drive me around for the next year and while I was quite happy with the situation, I had no idea what I was missing until five years later when I was forced to try again. Cut to five days after that and I was zipping through rush hour traffic in Chiang Mai like a little pro. Force yourself out of your comfort zone and the world will expand in front of you. Learning to confidently ride a motorbike was quite possibly my biggest accomplishment of 2016, and something I can only improve upon for the rest of my life. Here’s how to start:

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How To Make Your Hotel Room Feel Like Home


Growing up, we camped a lot. With so many tents and trailers around, it was really rare as a family of six to stay in a hotel room and even if we did, it was usually overcrowded, sterile, and uncomfortable. I have a faint memory of the excitement of discovering the door inside the hotel room that could connect our family’s two rooms, but besides that I remember feeling uncomfortable in the new space, bored, and quite hungry. What can I say, I’m a grazer. I like my snacks. Fast forward twenty years and I frequent hotel rooms and Airbnb’s often for work and play.
I realized that I have come a long way. I love exploring these new spaces and I can feel instantly at home almost anywhere I travel to. Maybe it is because I am lucky enough to find lovely spaces or maybe it is a few simple necessities that transform any hostel or hotel into an instant oasis. Here are a few of my favorite comforts that morph a hotel room into a home. You will notice that most have an element that elevates the vibe, atmosphere, and energy of the space and after all isn’t that what makes a house a home?

  • Portable speaker – Music emphasizes whatever mood you are trying to achieve. Want to relax? Pregame or party? Want to block out your hotel neighbors who sound like they are on their honeymoon or worse yet, like they are preparing for a divorce? Perfect – blast those tunes. Adding music to the equation customizes each activity from your morning shower and bathroom routine to your midday yoga flow. Memories are also tightly tied to music therefor you truly have the power to burn your vacation into your memory by creating a special playlist for the occasion. Although I have used a half dozen portable speakers, I was recently gifted this beautiful bass powerhouse crafted by Bang & Olufsen and I could not recommend it enough.
  • Fuzzy throw blanket – Maybe this seems redundant to you. Obviously there are blankets in your hotel room, but there is nothing like a cozy throw while you are lounging on the balcony or curled up with a good book by the window. Usually hotel comforters are big, bulky, and (hopefully) full of down, which is nice for sleeping, but too much for a casual hang. Your fuzzy throw probably smells like home too, which helps if your missing your partner or kids. Bonus? When everyone is shivering under their scratchy airline blanket you will be snoozing away in your window seat and while you cannot hear your neighbors, they are commenting on what a savvy traveler you are. Forget the stupid travel pillow and pack a throw instead.
  • Candles – It is amazing how one flickering light can change the mood of a room. The soft glow and ambiance from a candle or two kicks overhead lighting’s butt any day. I always travel with a tea light if not something larger. If you have time to spare at your destination, shopping for a candle on day one makes for a fun mini mission. You will surely wander into a few inspiring shops and you will support a local maker with your candle purchase. I love, love, love this candle. It is worth every penny and makes a beautiful gift.
  • Flowers – seems like a luxury, right? Actually, flowers are pretty inexpensive if you’re buying local blooms. It’s not like you need a dozen roses. While you are out candle shopping, wander through a flower market or visit the farmer’s market and pick up a bouquet of in-season wild flowers. Each time you walk into your hotel room a smile is sure to spread across your face. *And while we appreciate this luxury on the road, we always make it a point of trying to buy local & seasonal flowers, or those that have the Rainforest Alliance certification.
  • Snacks – save yourself! Buy some snacks. Never be hangry again and please don’t settle for crappy vending machine chocolate. Treat yourself like the grown ass adult that you are. A simple stop at a local grocer, co-op or even a gas station is a mass improvement over the mini bar. My go to travel snacks usually include a bottle of kefir, hummus, crackers, fruit (something easy like a bunch of grapes, citrus, or apples) and of course a nice chocolate bar. You really just need a few nibbles to tide you over when a snack attack comes on, it’s not like these are the groceries you will be living off of.
  • Tea – most hotel rooms will have an electric kettle or coffee pot in the room. Instead of drinking the plain Jane Lipton teas that are provided, pack a few of your own tea bags. I alway travel with tea and honestly it’s like a mini vacation with each cup. I’m instantly transported into a comfort zone and I can’t help but feel gratitude for taking such good care of myself. Apparently self care comes down to a cup of good tea for me. If you’re one of those people that needs coffee ASAP upon waking up, it’s not a bad idea to pack a little baggie of your own beans either. I skip this since I really enjoy trying out new coffee shops, but maybe a cup of your own Joe is what your travel mornings are missing?
  • Scents – weird one, huh? Not at all! Scents, like music, are strongly tied to memory and really we’re talking about aromatherapy here. You have the power to alter your mood and elevate your happiness with smells, so pack some! I highly recommend a paolo santo stick or incense, some invigorating eucalyptus oil for the shower, some soothing sandalwood oil for your bathrobe or pillow and even a little calming lavender satchel for your dresser drawer during the day and under your pillow at night. I know some folks who travel with essential oil diffusers and personally, I call them geniuses.


That’s that! Have I convinced you to pack a few more items in that backpack or suitcase? I mean seriously, imagine coming home after a long day of meetings or a chaotic trip through a local market and you walk through your hotel door greeted by a fresh bouquet of flowers. You immediately go about lighting a candle and burning some incense, pouring yourself a cup of tea, turning on your favorite album and curling up under your fuzzy blanket to reflect on your day. I think the only thing that could make the moment better is a piece of dark chocolate and thankfully you’ve thought of that too 🙂

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Cultivate a Life of Travel

Live seasoned live a life of travel designTraveling extensively really comes down to a few factors: time, money, and willingness.  If you’re willing, you are capable of creating the time and funds to take a trip.  If I, the least motivated money maker on the planet, can scrape together enough cash to travel to 15+ countries, you can too.  I absolutely despise money and trading my precious time for work (some people read this as being lazy, but I assure you I’m not), but travel motivates me to make paper.  Traveling is a drug and I am in the throws of addiction.  Life feels dull if I’m not exploring. Here’s how I motivate myself to maintain a life revolving around travel.

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How To: Survive an International Flight

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Some folks really dread flying.  Usually it’s because of the jet lag and awful airplane food and while those things do stink you can still survive a fourteen hour flight with a smile.  I know because I’ve experienced three extremely long flights to Asia all coming in at different levels on the comfort scale.  If you’re prepping for a holiday overseas, here are a few tips that should make your time in the air a bit more enjoyable. Although, even I couldn’t prepare for the time I woke up with a baby sleeping on my tray table. Even so, here’s how to best survive an international flight and walk away with a smile.

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How To: Save for Travel

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Hey travel bugs!  I’m extremely amped to write this post full of tips about saving money for travel because I’m in the midst of a big savings year right meow!  I have a huge trip planned for the end of 2015 and if I want to make it a reality I need to keep it at the forefront of my consciousness.  For me, a big part of successful savings starts with being mindful of it.  If I’m always thinking about the trip and being frugal, I’m much more likely to skip the little extras: the cup of coffee, the random tank top, the $4 bar of delicious dark chocolate, you get the picture.  This post applies to any big ticket item you want to save for not just a trip.  Maybe you want to splurge and get a fancy new DSLR (and by you I mean me), or pay off a huge chunk of student loans, or put aside money for your snazzy wedding, whatever you’re planning, you can save for it and these tips can help you!

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Step One: Estimate Your Travel Costs

First things first.  How much do you actually need to save? I get questions like this all the time: ‘how much should I save for a cross country road trip’ or ‘how much do you think I need for two weeks in Brazil’ and at first these questions seem unanswerable, but in truth, they’re pretty easy requests and they can be worked out with a pen, paper and a tiny bit of research. The short of it: what I need for a cross country road trip is probably not what you need for a cross country road trip. Why? Because we all have different lifestyles and ways of traveling.  That’s why it’s important for YOU to estimate your own travel costs and don’t worry, it’s not as intimidating as it sounds.

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